Relationships – The Self Help Hipster

Lately I’ve been observing something around me in relationships that I want to put on paper to make sense of it to myself. I also talked to a lot of you on Instagram about this topic and as usu...

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So. You met someone. They’re nice. Funny. Easy to talk to. Their .GIF usage is ON POINT. BUT. You do NOT want to take them out, you do NOT want their pants off. You just wanna hang out! Have a ...

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Asking someone out can be a daunting task. I’m here to help. Because we all know there is nobody more equipped to give advice on how to deal with the opposite sex*. I mean, look at me. I’m ...

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So. You’ve won the breakup, you have won at dating, and your date is really cute and into you. Now you want to make out with his face and maybe climb him like a tree. Or make out with her fac...

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So. You’re single. You’ve won the break-up. Now what? Well, my darlings… Now we date. Confession? I like dating. If it’s fun, I have a good night. If it’s terrible, I have a good story...

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NAILED IT. (Warning: This article does contain some actual tips on how to deal with a break up like a successful adult but is not entirely serious in either title or tone) So. Here you are. All ...

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How do we balance getting our own shit together (and keeping it together) with helping and pleasing the people around us? We’re always somewhere in the middle, aren’t we. On the one hand we h...

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One of my on-line faves wrote this article about people with zero ability to self-reflect. The kind of people who push you out of the way, steal your sandwich and hit on your boyfriend and then ...

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I find dating and mating rituals of the human species fucking fascinating, don’t you? I just shamelessly observe other people’s dating lives*. It’s daytime television, but in real life. Wha...

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(This article appeared on Evolyfe before, but since that concept is long gone I wanted to share it on my own website. Originally written in Januari this yar, but still relevant, to all relationsh...

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Although I’m a total tree- and people-hugger and believe in the goodness of menkind, I fully acknowledge that there are certain people in the world who are going to drive you nuts. The crazy au...

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I got a question and it was basically this: “okay, there’s this really hot guy at school and I totally dig his proverbial (and who knows, one day literal) pants off: What do I do to make him ...

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